By Jenny Smith At a dinner party a few months ago, a friend told me that she and her sister were making the four hour round trip from Hartford to Stamford Connecticut and back twice a week to check in on their 93-year-old mother in her home. Over the past year, their mom had several minor falls and left an electric stove burner on once. The burner remained on for a full day until my friend arrived. On three occasions, their mom neglected to take her medication from the carefu